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Γιατί ευνοεί τον άντρα και δυσχεραίνει τη γυναίκα;

Επειδή η κοινωνία περιμένει η γυναίκα να αναλάβει περισσότερες υποχρεώσεις σε σχέση με το σπίτι και τα παιδιά, ενώ ο άντρας απλά να "βοηθάει". Έρευνες δείχνουν ότι οι άντρες που παντρεύονται ζουν παραπάνω, οπότε ευνοούνται μετρήσιμα. (Προφανώς λόγω περιποίησης)Η γυναίκα παραδοσιακά βάζει την καριέρα της και τις προσωπικές της επιδιώξεις πιο πίσω από του συζύγου -απόδειξη ότι συνήθως ακολουθούν όπου πάει ο σύζυγος. Βέβαια ελπίζω οι νεότερες γενιές να μην ακολουθούν τα στερεότυπα, ελπίζω σε αυτές, είναι πιο ανοιχτόμυαλες.

Καλά το ειπε,ο γάμος ευνοεί τον άντρα και δυσχεραίνει τη γυναίκα.Το διαζύγιο ευνοεί τη γυναίκα και δυσχεραίνει το άντρα.

Οικονομικά, ναι, ισχύει, όταν όμως ο άντρας είναι συνεπής στις οικονομικές υποχρεώσεις του διαζυγίου. Πρακτικά η γυναίκα όμως φορτώνεται όλες τις υποχρεώσεις του παιδιού με αποτέλεσμα να μην έχει ούτε την απάλυνση μοναδικής ευθύνης που κανονικά προκύπτει σε μια δυάδα γονιών, ούτε την δυνατότητα να "ξαναφτιάξει την ζωή της" (επειδή κανένας άντρας δεν θέλει να "φορτωθεί" -όπως εκείνοι το βλέπουν- το παιδί κάποιου άλλου).Φυσικά αυτά στο πλαίσιο της στεροτυπίας, όχι στο τι θα έπρεπε να συμβαίνει.

Άρα με το "ο γάμος δυσχεραίνει" εννοείς "τα στερεότυπα για το γάμο δυσχεραίνουν"... δεν είναι το ίδιο.

https://www.google.com/amp/s/m.naftemporiki.gr/amp/story/71879/o-gamos-auksanei-to-prosdokimo-zois-ton-andron

someoneη στερεοτυπία είναι αυτό που συμβαίνει, αυτό που θεωρείται "ως έχει", που αποτελεί τη "νόρμα", εξ ου κι είναι στερεοτυπία.

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